Tuesday, April 7, 2009
Going in for the kill
Most guys have a knee-jerk “fear response” when it comes to approaching a particularly attractive woman. If you want to “reprogram” this response fast, then go big and put yourself in a situation where you approach many women in rapid succession. If you approach 10, 20 or even 50 women in a single day, you’ll make TREMENDOUS progress toward rewiring your instinctive fear reaction. Grab a buddy and commit to one another that you’re both going to approach a certain number of women on a particular night. Give each other a mental high five for each approach, and before you know it, you’ll have reached your goal for the evening… And approaching attractive women won’t be NEARLY as big of a deal as it may have been for you in the past.advice and tips for dating women
Sunday, April 5, 2009
watch your step !!
There are “trip wires” or triggers that can instantly put you in a BAD place with an attractive woman. Most of these big mistakes revolve around giving her your power, acting uncomfortably or unnaturally or letting the situation unnerve you and losing your composure. Avoid behaviors like trying to impress her, giving her more than one compliment, looking for her approval, doing things for her, kissing up to her, etc. At first, you’ll need to consciously avoid these pitfalls. With practice, you’ll get to the point where you NATURALLY avoid them.advice and tips for dating women
Saturday, April 4, 2009
what do women want?
Women want things that communicate thoughtfulness. Not that they don't enjoy diamonds... but if you do something that says, "I was thinking about you, and I wanted you to have a great experience," it will make far more of an impact than an expensive gift that wasn't chosen with care.
But as I mentioned, don't overdo the gifts and favors; don't ever become predictable.
And, interestingly enough, this can be a great test to see how a woman can handle extra-nice treatment. If she starts acting overly demanding and spoiled after you give her the gift of a thoughtful experience, then you might have a damaged woman on your hands. Pay attention.advice and tips for dating women
But as I mentioned, don't overdo the gifts and favors; don't ever become predictable.
And, interestingly enough, this can be a great test to see how a woman can handle extra-nice treatment. If she starts acting overly demanding and spoiled after you give her the gift of a thoughtful experience, then you might have a damaged woman on your hands. Pay attention.advice and tips for dating women
Friday, April 3, 2009
keeping your power
Ah, models. The object of desire for so many men.
And what do most guys do when they run into a woman who is of "model" quality?
They get nervous, act stupid, and say things that sound exactly like the other 47 guys she's talked to that day...
Beautiful women are some of the very best to bust on.
Think of it this way:
Her beauty (and, in the case of a model, fame) is her weapon.
It's where her power comes from.
When you approach a woman like this and immediately acknowledge her beauty, you also say, "I see that you are powerful, and I'm one of those who is affected by your power."
On the other hand, when you totally disregard her "outward beauty" and instead start making fun of her, teasing her and enjoying yourself, you say, "I am the powerful one, and your beauty magic doesn't work on me."
This has an instant effect.
It separates you from 999 out of 1,000 other men that she meets.advice and tips for dating women
And what do most guys do when they run into a woman who is of "model" quality?
They get nervous, act stupid, and say things that sound exactly like the other 47 guys she's talked to that day...
Beautiful women are some of the very best to bust on.
Think of it this way:
Her beauty (and, in the case of a model, fame) is her weapon.
It's where her power comes from.
When you approach a woman like this and immediately acknowledge her beauty, you also say, "I see that you are powerful, and I'm one of those who is affected by your power."
On the other hand, when you totally disregard her "outward beauty" and instead start making fun of her, teasing her and enjoying yourself, you say, "I am the powerful one, and your beauty magic doesn't work on me."
This has an instant effect.
It separates you from 999 out of 1,000 other men that she meets.advice and tips for dating women
Wednesday, April 1, 2009
keep her guessing
The idea is to keep her off-balance, intrigued and guessing -- make her want to spend time with you just because you're so different from any other guy out there. Just remember: Don't let your guard down and go wimpy on her -- the very second she thinks she's in control of you, it's all over. So by being different, by bringing a little refreshing change into the life of very attractive women, you might be surprised -- it might just be the breath of fresh air she's been looking for. Sure, it's no magic charm, and it's certainly not going to work every time. Trying to score a date with very attractive women is definitely a numbers game. But all it takes is one, and if you pull it off, you're going to be in for the sweetest ride of your life.advice and tips for dating women
Tuesday, March 31, 2009
Getting it right
Don't put her on a pedestal, where she usually sits with other men. If you do give her a minimal compliment, follow up with something off-putting. Tell her, for example, that she's wearing a nice dress, but that your sister has the same one. This says she has good fashion style, but that she's not entirely original.
Tell her she's not up to your standards
Tell her you'd like to ask her out, but she's just not up to your usual standards (watch her jaw hit the floor). If you really want to throw her, steal her thunder and tell her that you think you should be just friends.
Wait a little while to call her
If you get her phone number, wait at least a week to call her -- and then tell her you'll try to fit a date with her into your schedule.advice and tips for dating women
Tell her she's not up to your standards
Tell her you'd like to ask her out, but she's just not up to your usual standards (watch her jaw hit the floor). If you really want to throw her, steal her thunder and tell her that you think you should be just friends.
Wait a little while to call her
If you get her phone number, wait at least a week to call her -- and then tell her you'll try to fit a date with her into your schedule.advice and tips for dating women
Monday, March 30, 2009
Keep it simple
Talk about her interests & passions
Stimulate her mind, as other guys probably don't. Show interest in her intellect and make her comfortable. Play on your good aspects and not your looks -- but don't lie to impress her.advice and tips for dating women
Stimulate her mind, as other guys probably don't. Show interest in her intellect and make her comfortable. Play on your good aspects and not your looks -- but don't lie to impress her.advice and tips for dating women
Sunday, March 29, 2009
Heads up !!
For men, the lure of dating very attractive women is obvious as they are arm candy, boost self-esteem, increase social status among men, multiply a guy's sexual desirability, and hot women are just damn good to look at. While all of this is well and good, very attractive women have their dark side and can be shallow, self-centered and self-absorbed, not to mention that many of them are selfish, think that their vaginas are gold-plated, and are manipulators, among many other negative qualities.
Despite these drawbacks, very attractive women are what most guys look for. Since these women are constantly bombarded with male attention, they can afford to be highly selective about the men they date, which usually lands them some dude with money first and good looks second.
Is there any hope for you if you don't have extremely good looks or lots of cash? Well, you just might be able give yourself a decent shot if you're willing to make a couple of shifts in your dating strategy and take our advice on dating very attractive women.Advice and tips for dating women
Despite these drawbacks, very attractive women are what most guys look for. Since these women are constantly bombarded with male attention, they can afford to be highly selective about the men they date, which usually lands them some dude with money first and good looks second.
Is there any hope for you if you don't have extremely good looks or lots of cash? Well, you just might be able give yourself a decent shot if you're willing to make a couple of shifts in your dating strategy and take our advice on dating very attractive women.Advice and tips for dating women
Saturday, March 28, 2009
Tease her
Very attractive women can sense fear and insecurity the way a moth smells pheromones, so be light, fun and entertaining. Boyish charm can take you a long way with these women -- many of the great-looking guys they date can be seriously personality-challenged.Take to heart this advice and tips for dating women
Friday, March 27, 2009
Don't hit on her
This is what she expects from the typical guy, so just make like you're ignoring her. This is a great technique to use if you run into very attractive women on a routine basis at work, a coffee shop or a health club. If you don't give her any attention -- while openly paying attention to other women -- she won't be able to stand it because you'll be the only guy within a hundred miles who isn't drooling over her.This is the golden advice and tips for dating womenWith luck, she'll be intrigued. Avoid pickup lines at all costs.
Thursday, March 26, 2009
Treat her like she's nothing special
Talk to her like you would any other person. Don't act awestruck by her looks, don't gush out compliments and never stare at her with lust.Learning these advice and tips for dating women will Reduce the intimidation factor, be debonair and seem aloof, as if you don't care about her looks. Whatever you do, don't assume she doesn't want to talk to you. Dating very attractive women requires you to almost seem indifferent.
Wednesday, March 25, 2009
Nothing like beautiful women
Very attractive women are what most guys look for. Since these women are constantly bombarded with male attention, they can afford to be highly selective about the men they date, which usually lands them some dude with money first and good looks second.
My advice and tips for dating women Will open up a whole new ball game
My advice and tips for dating women Will open up a whole new ball game
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